The Complete Planning Library

It’s 2am. The hospital calls your family. Would they know what you want?

Most families don’t. They don’t know what care you’d choose, who to call, or where your papers are. So they guess, at the worst possible time.

This library helps you write it all down, in plain English, so they don’t have to guess.

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First page of "My Wishes Worksheet" from the End-of-Life Planning KitFirst page of "Conversation Starter Cards" from the Family Conversation KitFirst page of "First 30 Days Checklist" from the After-a-Death & Executor KitFirst page of "30-Day Readiness Action Plan" from the End-of-Life Planning Kit

46%

of US adults have a will. Most people have not written their wishes down.

Gallup, 2021

1 in 3

A review of 16 studies found families guessed a loved one's treatment wishes wrong about one time in three.

Shalowitz et al., 2006

Plain English, printable, yours to keep

Print the pages and work through them at your own speed. Print as many copies as you need.

General information, not legal advice.

What happens when nothing is written down

  1. At the hospital

    A doctor asks what you would want. Your family has to guess. Sometimes they even disagree with each other.

  2. In the first days

    Someone has to find the will, the bank, the insurance and the passwords. With no map, that can take a long time.

  3. In the months after

    The person in charge learns a long list of tasks while they are grieving. Many of them for the first time.

  4. Today

    You mean to sort it out and talk about it. Then the weeks go by. It's not that you don't care. It's hard to know where to start.

None of this is about expecting the worst. Death is part of life. Being ready is a gift to the people you love.

Whatever you believe, the day will come for your family.

Religious, spiritual, agnostic or atheist: the phone calls, the paperwork and the questions in the hospital corridor are the same for everyone.

  • If you have a faith

    Your faith may tell you what comes after. It does not tell your family where your will is, or which treatments you would refuse.

  • If you are spiritual

    You may know the rituals, songs or quiet you want. Nobody else will, unless you write them down.

  • If you are agnostic or atheist

    No belief is needed to leave a plan. Your family still has to make the calls, find the papers and guess your wishes.

  • If your family believes differently

    This is where the hardest arguments start. Your own words, on paper, protect your wishes and your family's peace.

The worksheets have space for your faith, beliefs and customs, or for none at all. It is your plan, in your words.

Most families have this talk too late.

It happens in a hospital corridor at 2am, when everyone is tired and scared and nobody knows what you wanted. More than half of adults in the US have no will (Gallup, 2021). One evening now spares your family years of guessing.

Everything in one place

4 kits, 24 printable PDFs, one download. Each kit answers one hard question, so you can start with the one you need most.

  1. First page of "My Wishes Worksheet" from the End-of-Life Planning KitFirst page of "Important Documents & Accounts Organizer" from the End-of-Life Planning KitFirst page of "30-Day Readiness Action Plan" from the End-of-Life Planning Kit
    7 PDFs · 25 pages

    End-of-Life Planning Kit

    Would your family know what you want?

    Write down your care wishes, your papers and your plans, one page at a time, in your own words.

    • Your care and treatment wishes, and who speaks for you
    • Where your documents, accounts and bills are
    • Your funeral choices and a cost table
    • Your phone, email and online accounts
    • A 30-day plan: one small step a day
    See all 7 files
    • My Wishes Worksheet · 5 pages
    • Important Documents & Accounts Organizer · 4 pages
    • Funeral & Memorial Planning · 4 pages
    • Digital Life Inventory · 3 pages
    • Where to Find Everything · 3 pages
    • Talking With Your Family · 3 pages
    • 30-Day Readiness Action Plan · 3 pages
  2. First page of "The First 48 Hours" from the After-a-Death & Executor KitFirst page of "Accounts and Services to Close" from the After-a-Death & Executor KitFirst page of "First 30 Days Checklist" from the After-a-Death & Executor Kit
    6 PDFs · 34 pages

    After-a-Death & Executor Kit

    What do you do in the first days after someone dies?

    Clear steps for the person left in charge, so nothing important is missed when it is hard to think.

    • What to do first, and what can wait
    • Who to tell, and what to ask for
    • A task list for the executor
    • Somewhere to track what is done
    See all 6 files
    • The First 48 Hours · 5 pages
    • First 30 Days Checklist · 5 pages
    • Accounts and Services to Close · 7 pages
    • Executor Task Planner · 6 pages
    • Scripts for Calls · 6 pages
    • Paperwork Tracker · 5 pages
  3. First page of "Family Meeting Agenda and Roles" from the Family Conversation KitFirst page of "Scripts for Hard Moments" from the Family Conversation KitFirst page of "Conversation Starter Cards" from the Family Conversation Kit
    5 PDFs · 19 pages

    Family Conversation Kit

    How do you start the talk nobody wants to start?

    Gentle words and questions to help you talk about wishes and plans with the people you love.

    • Starter cards: easy ways to bring it up
    • A simple agenda and roles for a family meeting
    • Words to use when the talk gets hard
    • A one-page summary of what matters most to you
    • Notes on culture and faith
    See all 5 files
    • Conversation Starter Cards · 5 pages
    • Family Meeting Agenda and Roles · 4 pages
    • Scripts for Hard Moments · 4 pages
    • What Matters Most to Me · 2 pages
    • Cultural and Faith Notes · 4 pages
  4. First page of "Religion Comparison Matrix" from the Euthanasia 101 Guide PackFirst page of "Ethical Frameworks Cheat Sheet" from the Euthanasia 101 Guide PackFirst page of "Global Laws Comparison Chart" from the Euthanasia 101 Guide Pack
    6 PDFs · 13 pages

    Euthanasia 101 Guide Pack

    What are the facts, without the noise?

    Neutral, sourced facts for when the topic comes up in the news, at a hospital or at the dinner table. It does not tell you what to decide.

    • Where it is legal, and the main rules
    • What each major faith teaches
    • The main arguments on both sides
    • Key numbers, each with its source
    • A glossary of words explained simply
    See all 6 files
    • Global Laws Comparison Chart · 2 pages
    • Religion Comparison Matrix · 1 page
    • Ethical Frameworks Cheat Sheet · 2 pages
    • Key Statistics · 4 pages
    • Legal Milestones Timeline · 2 pages
    • Glossary Quick Reference · 2 pages

The Complete Planning Library

$39USD, once

One payment · Lifetime access · Instant download

  • End-of-Life Planning Kit (7 PDFs)
  • After-a-Death & Executor Kit (6 PDFs)
  • Family Conversation Kit (5 PDFs)
  • Euthanasia 101 Guide Pack (6 PDFs)
  • Every future kit and update, free

Imagine your family opening one folder and finding your answers, in your words. You will be the one who handled it.

The Library is for people ready to write their wishes down, not put it off. If you are only looking today, the free tools are still here for you.

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Why is it only $39?

  • A full estate plan from a lawyer can cost $2,000 to $5,000 or more.
  • One online will service, Trust & Will, starts at $199.
  • One doula group in Indiana charges $320 for a three-hour planning session.

These are different services. The Library is not a lawyer or a will. It helps you think, write things down and talk first. The National Council on Aging says coming prepared can cut a lawyer's paid hours.

You download it, so there is nothing to print or post. No one bills you by the hour. We made each kit once, and every family who uses it shares that cost.

We keep the price low on purpose. We want every family to be able to plan. We are on your side.

You still get every kit above, and all future kits free. There is a 30-day money-back guarantee.

Prices checked 25 October 2026: NCOA, Trust & Will, Twilight Doula Group.

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Questions you might have

What if it isn't right for me?

If it doesn't help, email [email protected] within 30 days for a full refund. No forms, no questions. You do not need to send anything back.

What does lifetime access mean?

You pay once. Your download link keeps working, and it always gives you the newest version. When we add a new kit or improve one, use the same link to get it. There is no subscription.

Which countries is it for?

Anyone can use the worksheets. The End-of-Life Planning Kit explains the names used in the US, the UK, Malaysia, Australia and Canada. Rules after a death are different in each country and state. Check with your local registry office or a lawyer.

Is this legal advice?

No. The library is general information in plain English. It helps you get your thoughts and records in order. For a will, a power of attorney or an advance directive, use the official forms where you live, or speak to a lawyer.

Why is there a guide about euthanasia in a planning library?

Many families meet the topic in the news or at a hospital and want plain facts. The Euthanasia 101 Guide Pack explains the laws, faiths and arguments in a neutral way. It does not tell you what to decide. If you are struggling or thinking about ending your life, please talk to someone now. You can find a line for your country at euthanasia101.com/help.

How do I get the files?

After you pay, you can download one ZIP file straight away. Inside, each kit has its own folder of printable PDFs. We also email you the link, so you can find it again later.

Can I print it more than once?

Yes. Print as many copies as you need for yourself and your family.

I have a question. Who can I ask?

Please write to [email protected].

You don’t have to finish today. You only have to start.

Fifteen minutes. One page. One question.

Waiting has a cost. A stroke or dementia can take away your chance to decide. Start while the choice is still yours.

It works best if you will sit down and fill in the pages. If you only want to read about the topic, our free guides may be enough.

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